No, we are not advising you to embrace polygamy, but if you wish to sneak around you have do it right!
1. KEEP THEM PHYSICALLY AND MENTALLY SEPARATE
There’s an old toast, “to our wives and mistresses: may they never meet.” Remember that keeping your women separate is your singular mission. This isn’t just a physical task—keeping them from walking into the same frozen-yogurt place at the same time—but also a mental one. Keep your names, stories, and timelines straight. I shouldn’t have to say this, but the safe route is to never refer to a girl by her name (to avoid saying the wrong one), re-ask questions you’re aren’t 100-percent about (“what was that movie we saw together last time?”), and feign having a bad memory (“I’d forget what day of the week it was if it weren’t for this sweet Casio watch”).
2. PUT YOUR PHONE ON LOCKDOWN
I’m convinced 75 percent of guys get caught because of sloppy phone game. Put a password on your phone and change it regularly. And, if you’re getting more serious withone girl, put the others into one of the several fine text-hiding apps that are on the market today. An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.
3. TALK ABOUT YOUR LIFE ON A NEED-TO-KNOW BASIS
Answer questions as if you’re talking to cops: only offer up the information requested. Withhold unnecessary details about stories dealing with risky aspects of your life. She doesn’t need to know that you’re going to New York for exactly three days and four nights. You’re going to “be away for a few days” and will be back “next week.” That’s it.
4. LIVE IN THE MOMENT
Stop thinking about the other girlfriend while you are with one.When you’re with one woman, dedicate all of your focus and energy to her.Don’t get sucked into your phone or social media while you’re on a date. Keep your focus on the person you’re with. The other women you’re seeing can wait.